I believe that most of the time the simplest solutions are the best, more specifically when having to overcome the hardest challenges. When I am feeling overwhelmed with guilt, shame, regret, grief, or any form of so called negative feelings or thoughts. I try to imagine a scene such as this one. I imagine that I am standing right underneath this beautiful waterfall. " Wash it away".... I let myself feel whatever I am feeling allowing the vision of the waterfall to cleanse my body, mind, and soul. As I close my eyes I can feel the coolness of the water running down my head. I tilt my head back allowing the water to drench through my hair, as it slowly falls down my back caressing and cooling my warm sun-soaked skin. Underneath the water I feel my feet, safely balanced on a large smooth flat stone. " I am safe"... I can see a school of fish swimming past me without concern. I can hear birds chirping in the trees around me. I can feel the light from the sun shining down on my face. I breathe in deeply as I smell the air around me. What do I smell? Is it the water or the trees? Or maybe I smell smoke from the campfire I had put out earlier. Depending on the day or the mood I am in I might smell the stinky fish (hahaha). I stay here in this place as long as I need to or as long as my environment allows me to. Sometimes 5 minutes or sometimes an hour. Exercises like this always help to ground me in situations that feel out of control. It helps to slow the world down enough so that I am able to make healthier decisions instead of rash decisions that come from fear or trauma. Notice I said healthier. This exercise does not guarantee the outcome of the problems that I am facing or take away all of the pain and worries that I have, however it does help to ease the weight of the world. The more that I have practiced this and similar techniques the more I have noticed my bigger problems seem smaller and my small, pesky, problems almost evaporate with the air around my waterfall.
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